DATING HAS CHANGED, AND SO HAVE YOU.
dating again after a long relationship in singapore
If you’re back on the market after years away, don’t use the version of you from five years ago.
$890
YOU ALREADY KNOW HOW TO DO THE RELATIONSHIP PART
it’s the dating part that feels oddly unfamiliar.
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dating is so different now and i feel so out of my depth
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i don’t have any current good solo pictures
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i don’t want another relationship that turns out to be the wrong one
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i don’t really know what i want yet
back at it is a private dating reset for men who want to re-enter the dating world properly, instead of figuring it out alone through six months of awkward trial and error.
30-min free and private introductory call with zero obligations
you may be wondering:
How much should I mention my last relationship?
What do people even put on Hinge prompts now?
How do I get to know someone again after years of talking to someone who already knew me completely?
How soon should I ask someone out?
Have my standards changed?
Am I ready, or am I doing this just because my friends told me I needed to get back out there?
Are my photos horribly outdated?
i promise, these are completely valid re-entry questions.
how we get you back into the dating world prepared and confident
In just 4 sessions, excluding our introductory Quick Hello call
❋ work out what “this time” is
What worked in your last relationship? What didn’t? What matters more now? What are you not willing to repeat? Your past relationship taught you plenty - let’s work out what you want this time. Includes a This Time brief - a short summary report for you to return to and benchmark your progress.
❋ update
We review the practical stuff - your profile, photos, clothes, how you’re meeting women, what feels unfamiliar or confusing, dealing with rejection, and any other questions you don’t really want to ask your attached or married friends. Importantly, the goal here is for you to decide how you want to approach dating from now.
❋ restart
Sometimes to install updates, you have to restart your device. That’s what this session is for - practice, practice, practice. Meeting someone for the first time today is so different from even just a few years ago. We practise whatever feels least natural now, e.g. how to show interest, how to ask someone out, etc.
❋ AAR
After you’ve had a couple dates, we’ll do a debrief, or an After-Action Review. We take another look at what surprised you, what still feels strange, and what else you’ve learnt. We then use this to build a plan for your next steps, post-programme. You also have 30 days of WhatsApp access for the smaller questions that come up between sessions.
30-min free and confidential introductory call with zero obligations
what are you thinking?
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Maybe, maybe not.
Back At It isn’t designed to rush you into a relationship. It’s to help you get clear on what you want, and when you’re ready, to get back at it well.
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Neither do I. Your previous relationship may have been significant, but today, it is context, and it still made you into who you are today.
You probably learnt something about what you need, what you tolerated for too long, what mistakes you won’t make again this time. We just distil the useful information and use it to move forward better and stronger.
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You probably will, eventually.
But wouldn’t you want to shorten the learning period and do it properly this time? Dating gives you experience, not necessarily useful feedback. I give you a chance to practise in a judgement-free space before every real interaction that actually has stakes.
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So is spraying and praying - and that’s not just money, that’s time, mental effort, emotional investment…
Back At It is not a general “feel-better” programme. It’s a focused intervention with a clear outcome. Would you rather spend your dates worried that you’re rusty or that you’ll make the same mistakes as you did in the past?
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We’ll use your This Time brief to assess your starting point. At our AAR (last session), we’ll reflect on where you are, consolidate what you’ve learnt, and build a plan for your next steps. And honestly, all that aside, you’ll know.
IMPORTANT:
❋ this is for you if:
You’re single after a serious relationship, you feel ready to meet people again, and want some structure as you prepare to get back into the dating world.
❋ this is not for you if:
The breakup is still so raw that dating isn’t actually the priority, or if you’re doing this as a sort of revenge. Might I suggest therapy instead if that’s the case.
FOR $890,
back at it includes:
4 private 45-min sessions over ~ 4-6 weeks (worth $250 each)
your this time dating brief
modern dating re-entry guidance
30 days of exclusive whatsapp access
full control over online or in-person meetings
live practice
profile and presentation review
first-month dating review
convenient scheduling at your own time via client-only link
secure payment via stripe after quick hello
introductory quick hello call
Tell me where you are now, and we’ll decide if Back At It is right for you. Completely free, private and with no obligations.
❋ bonus: wanna sort the clothes out at the same time?
Back At It gets your dating life up to speed. If your wardrobe feels several years behind where you are now, you can add The Makeover and deal with both in one hard reset. The bundle adds a 3-hour personal shopping session covering fit, colour and complete date outfits.
You don’t need to decide now - book the Quick Hello, and let me know only if you think this would be genuinely value-adding.
Back At It + The Makeover • $1,297
Usually $1,487 - you save $190
CLIENTS REVIEW:
real change happens when you talk to ting
“I feel so much lighter now.”
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“Wan Ting helped look through my profile and pointed out strengths and weaknesses, it was helpful to have a trusted female perspective and gave me confidence that the good parts were actually good.”
HY
“Wan Ting has a remarkable ability to create a safe, trusting space that enables clients to find clarity and move towards their goals with intention. She is kind, curious, and deeply present. By listening without judgement, she ensures her clients feel heard, while her thoughtful questioning gently surfaces powerful new insights.”
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let’s do it right this time.
Completely free, private and with no obligations.
Secure payment via Stripe only after our call.
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