YOU KEEP GOING FOR EVENTS, BUT WHAT HAPPENS AFTER?
first date and singles mixer upskilling for men in singapore
If you’re meeting people, but interactions never go beyond polite work conversations, this is for you.
$547
“I’M ALREADY GOING FOR THESE EVENTS.”
why does nothing come from them?
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nobody came to talk to me
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i approach people, but i don’t know what to talk about aside from work
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there just wasn’t anyone there i had chemistry with
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i’m just introverted
the room where it happens is a private event preparation programme for men who want to walk into their next event and know what they’re doing, instead of perfectly pleasant conversations that are polite, passive and hard to progress.
30-min free and private introductory call with zero obligations
this may sound familiar:
I just don’t know how to create chemistry quickly
Do I approach enough people?
Why can I talk to people at work but not at mixers?
I just overthink everything and in the end I’m too late to respond to the conversation
Have my standards changed?
I came with a friend so I should stick with him
How quickly should I ask for her number?
good news: you don’t need to become extroverted, learn how to “command the room”, or approach 20 women.
how we get you prepared, practised, and less in your own head
In just 3 sessions, excluding our introductory Quick Hello call
❋ troubleshoot
Review of the upcoming event and your usual pattern - maybe you overthink too much until you’ve missed the moment, or you feel you need to ask safe questions, or wait for clear evidence of interest before taking a risk. We uncover what’s behind that as targeted work for our next session.
❋ download and install updates
Practise what we discovered in our previous session - with iterative loops of feedback, retry, adjust. Importantly, the goal isn’t to make you practise a different personality, but to uncover what works for you, and ingrain adjustments that are natural for you.
What we might practice:
How do you join a conversation when two people are already talking?
How do you show you’re interested without coming across too strong?
What do you do when the conversation goes quiet?
❋ restart and AAR
30-min debrief after the real event. What changed? What felt hard? We use this to build a plan for your next steps, post-programme.
If you’re still not sure whether the issue is one event or something you do everywhere, book a Quick Hello - a confidential and no-obligations 30min introductory video call.
what are you thinking?
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No. Chemistry and connection involve two people. But what we can do is practise the behaviours that give chemistry a chance to exist. If you barely initiate, say very little about yourself, suppress signs of interest and wait for the other person to create every opening, you haven’t created the space for potential chemistry to even exist.
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Yeah it will, if you’re practising to be someone else. But this isn’t about “fake it until you make it” - it’s about identifying your unique blockers and, well, unblocking them.
You already rehearse for important work presentations, because being prepared means you can think less about the mechanics when the moment arrives. What’s so different about social events?
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Sure, that might be true. But introversion doesn’t equate to passivity. It doesn’t require you to stand in one corner, wait to be chosen, or not do anything about learning how to signal interest. You can remain introverted while still becoming better at creating opportunities for yourself.
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Aren’t mixers expensive too? If you repeat the same interaction or social setting and do the same thing without any structured feedback, how will you expect to improve at your next one? More repetitions build comfort, and repeating the same behaviour doesn’t automatically create improvement.
Plus, this isn’t just dating event prep - this is useful also for other work situations like networking. Talk about value!
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We’ll use your first session to assess your starting point. At our AAR (last session), we’ll reflect on where you are, consolidate what you’ve learnt, and build a plan for your next steps.
❋ your next date isn’t the place to practise for the first time.
It might feel like you’re doing something productive - going for another event, another mixer, another date. But if you keep bringing the same behaviour into each one, what you’re paying for is actually more chances to practise the same habit.
You don’t need to do something next Saturday; just need to do something different next Saturday. A private practice session can show you things another date or event probably won’t tell you.
FOR $547,
the room includes:
3 private 45-min sessions over ~ 1-3 weeks (worth $250 each)
live feedback and opportunities to try again immediately
more confidence walking into any room
identification of targeted behaviours and thought patterns to focus on
live practice
full control over online or in-person meetings
introductory quick hello call
post-event review
secure payment via stripe after quick hello
convenient scheduling at your own time via client-only link
Tell me where you are now, and we’ll decide if The Room is right for you. Completely free, private and with no obligations.
❋ bonus: wanna get “what do i wear?” off the list too?
The Room prepares you for what to do when you’re at the date / event, but The Makeover is for what you look like. The bundle adds a 3-hour personal shopping session covering fit, colour and complete date outfits.
You don’t need to decide now - book the Quick Hello, and if your clothes are already doing their job, I’ll tell you.
Back At It + The Makeover • $997
Usually $1,144 - you save $147
CLIENTS REVIEW:
what actually changes when you talk to ting
“Unlike other coaches who can feel a tad too over professional and proper, I love that she came across to be with such warmth & care, like a friend. She ask questions that focuses on helping me to see above and beyond my situation and gave me space to just throw out my thoughts without me feeling that I’ll be judged. & I can see how she will become an even better coach in the future!”
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“I had an elevated positive experience with Wan Ting. Anyone who gets to work with Wan Ting is in good hands.”
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prepare for your next opportunity instead of just hoping it goes differently.
Completely free, private and with no obligations.
Secure payment via Stripe only after our call.
Dating again?
Have a long-term pattern or habit?