YOU’RE PROBABLY NOT SEEING WHAT SHE SEES FIRST.
dating profile and first date feedback for men in singapore
If you’re already trying but getting the same results again and again, let’s find out what’s getting in the way.
$197
YOU SWIPE, HAVE A FEW DATES, GO FOR EVENTS - BUT SHE KEEPS SAYING
she “just didn’t feel a spark”
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i don’t know how to create that romantic energy or connection
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women keep telling me they just see me as a friend
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dating apps are just bad in singapore
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i’m not in a rush, i just need to keep trying
the second opinion is a private dating diagnostic for men who want to know how they come across online and in conversation, so you know what to change instead of just guessing.
Secure payment via Stripe
you might be here because:
You’re really tired of the endless “What do you do for work?” conversations
You’re polite and can hold a conversation, but you’re not sure if it feels like a date
You’re starting to wonder if it’s your height, looks, age, standards, or job
Your profile looks perfectly normal to you so you don’t know what to change
Your friends keep saying you’re a great catch, which is nice, but doesn’t really help
Dates are pleasant but rarely turn into a second or third date
You get matches, but rarely with people you really want to meet
great news - you’re in the right place.
Before you swipe more, go to another mixer or change your standards,
find out what’s actually getting in your way
❋ before our session:
Complete a short questionnaire and send me your dating profile
❋ during our session:
We review:
Your profile - what your profile actually says about you, and what we can change to reflect you better
Your first impression - what a woman who doesn’t know you has to work with
Your conversation - how you come across e.g. guarded, interview-like, difficult to read, open, friendly, etc.
Your pattern - where things tend to stop
❋ after our session
I send you a Second Opinion report with up to 3 things I think matter most, plus recommendations on what I’d do next.
what are you thinking?
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That can feel frustrating.
More swiping and going for mixers can help you find someone too.
But if you’ve been doing this for months and years and getting the same outcome, maybe it’s not the dating scene in Singapore that needs to change.
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Has that worked out for you?
Chat can’t observe your live behaviour, appearance or patterns. Your friends have years of context of knowing you. Your friends know that you’re funny once you warm up, that you’re generous with them, and that the stiff photo on Hinge doesn’t represent you. A woman seeing your profile for the first time doesn’t have any of that context.
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I can’t. I don’t speak for all women, and I won’t pretend to.
But what I can give you is one informed perspective, a combination of coaching training, years of interviewing and assessing people professionally, image and colour training, and experience paying attention to how people present and communicate.
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Of course not. The work is private, practical, and focused on behaviour - never humiliation or gender stereotypes.
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No. Nobody can honestly promise you attraction, a second date, or a relationship. But what we work on is the things you can control - how you present yourself, how you communicate, how clearly you show interest, and the version of you that people meet.
IMPORTANT:
❋ this is for you if:
You feel like dating gets tiring and just want a quick diagnostic on where you might be getting stuck.
❋ this is not for you if:
You want deeper work and someone to talk to instead of just kicking a ball around with your friends.
If you’re just getting back into dating, you may want to get Back At It.
If you find yourself feeling invisible, try The Room Where It Happens.
If you want to talk about a specific issue, Talk Tings Through.
FOR $197,
the second opinion includes:
1 private 45-min session (worth $247)
a pre-session profile review
live practice
real-time, immediately useable feedback
an intake questionnaire
your second opinion report with clear actionable recommendations
Fully private and confidential. Secure payment via Stripe
OPTIONAL ADD-ON:
Don’t want to figure the next step out alone? Add a working session and we’ll implement the changes together.
Save $117 when booked together
CLIENTS REVIEW:
real change happens when you talk to ting
“Wan Ting is a fantastic person passionate about her work, which made the experience fun and informative…10/10 good investment”
J
“Wan Ting helped look through my profile and pointed out strengths and weaknesses, it was helpful to have a trusted female perspective and gave me confidence that the good parts were actually good.”
H
break the cycle of endless repetition.
Fully private and completely secure.
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